May Your Tea be Strong

May your tea be stronger than your children (swipe to see my middle making goggle eyes, her current signature move 🤦🏻‍♀️), and you get all your Christmas shopping done this weekend while everything is on sale! I got so many cute things at amazing prices for my family and friends last night, continuing today!

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DIY Boba Tea Costume

DIY Boba Tea Costume

The best boba teas in this world are your friends who will dress up as boba teas with you for Halloween, who will laugh and cry with you through life, and be there for you in this crazy wild journey of motherhood ❤️❤️❤️ Thanks @cn1chole for the awesome idea!!! 😘

Milktea Monday #2

Happy Thanksgiving to our Canadian neighbors, and No-School I mean Columbus Day for all the parents here in America! Welcome to my 2nd edition of Milktea Monday, featuring one of my FAVORITE tea places ever – Feng Cha! 🍵
Feng Cha in Chinese means serving tea with great respect and esteem, and this place lives up to its name! Some reasons I absolutely LOVE Feng Cha –

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Boba and Childbirth

The Birth Stories of My 3 Babies

I shared a boba tea with this pretty lady last night, talked about anything and everything, including childbirth, the topic she and every woman who hasn’t gone through it feel uneasy about. She said she will definitely go for the epidural when the time comes. When I shared my opting for natural births all 3 times, she was shocked and asked why I was willing to go through that much pain.

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Girl Stop Apologizing

I do eat whatever I want. I do love my boba teas. But I ALSO get my sweat on almost daily!!! 🏃🏻‍♀️🧘🏻‍♀️🤸🏻‍♀️ Honestly it’s about developing good habits so I don’t even consciously think about working out or eating my vegetables, I just do and love it and it’s a part of my everyday routine. I made some people upset when they found out I have stayed the same size since high school, even postpartum, and I often tried to come up with excuses to make myself look not as healthy as I strived to be. Why? Why do I need to make myself small to maybe please someone else? When I should be so darn proud of myself for working hard, developing good habits and trying to stay healthy! On that note, I have also learned that if your “friend” can’t be happy for you, she is not a real friend. I want to be a good role model for my daughters, and that includes accepting and loving myself for exactly who I am, all my strengths and weaknesses!

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Boba and Marriage

Today the pastor asked about our hopes and dreams for our children, and just like most other parents, we want our kids to be happy, healthy and successful, married well and have beautiful children of their own in the future. While there is nothing wrong with these hopes and dreams, the pastor told us that we should really want for our kids to –

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Thank you friends for supporting me since I wanted to give blogging a try 2 weeks ago! I’m finding out more of my intentions of wanting to blog – sharing motherhood, mom feels and tips, health and fitness and of course DISNEY! ✨
I’m officially changing my blog name to BobalyEverAfter, and I’m working on a blog site to come too 🙂 The reason being…I love Disney, sometimes I feel I’m living in a fairytale with my husband and 3 children (I’m a hopeless romantic as my friend Grace just put it 😆 but of course their tantrums and chaos bring me back to real life haha), and yes I love my boba drinks!!!
Thank you YY, WB, Marian & Crystal, Amy, Tina, Carolyn, B, Nicki, Val etc for supporting me in giving this an honest try! Thank you also to Nina and Maggie for being my honest sisters/friends and telling me your concerns and what I needed to hear because I know you love and care for me ❤️
Cheers to BobalyEverAfter! 🥂😆